2010-2-28 04:33:00
My Friends,
This is the last segment of the 2005 Gathering. It is interesting that the written transcript is composed of over 92,000 words. That's an average sized book and that leaves out some healing and meditation sessions. That's an amazing amount of material for one symposium and I must say that I appreciate the group's patience for hanging in there are paying attention all the way through.
JJ: When I was living at the Fire Station in Moscow, Idaho there was this one guy in particular who started being a real jerk to me -- kind of out of the blue, especially during meals. I tried to ignore his behavior and was pleasant in return.
Then he became even more obnoxious, but no matter what he did I tried to overlook it and tried to be nice in return. This continued for a week or so until one day he approached me and explained his mysterious behavior.
He said, "I have never seen you get irritated at anyone here, so I thought I would try and irritate you. All week long I have really been trying to do stuff to bother you and make you mad at me."
I said, "Yeah, really? I thought you were just having a bad day."
The point is that if you treat people nice, they will notice that. But what causes people, after you have treated them nice, to turn on you at times and become even more irritable?
Again we get back to guilt. If they're that way, it's because they are so full of guilt that when you turn the other cheek you reveal to them their faults. They feel guilty about them and instead of correcting the guilt they become more irritable than ever. But if they are not too full of guilt and can handle it, then turning the other cheek will help the person to progress.
But, if the person is not making any progress you have to tune into your higher self as much as possible and try to figure out if there is some other alternative to help this person see himself as he is.
If the person is impossible to work with I just get out of their way and avoid them completely. If you're married to such a person the best thing to do is just get a divorce. Because if you are nice to a person and he or she is not nice back to you there is not much you can do to help them until they reache rock bottom and has to face theirself. It may be another lifetime before they improve, so it is usually best to just avoid this person as much as possible.
It is a good idea to avoid coming into contact with these negative people. Now, if your mindset is on the things of the spirit you must realize that like gathers like unto itself. When I look at myself and then the group here that is gathered around me, I have to say that I must not be all bad because look at the good people that are gathered here. So that gives me added faith in myself when I realize that "like gathers like."
I have found that when a difficult person comes into my life it is rarely someone I have chosen, but some outside agent or friend brings them into my life.
These people who are not on your vibratory measure will not normally come into your life, but maybe some friend or associate brings them in. One must be really aware of these third party introductions.
What one must do is to be aware of your own vibration and then visualize seeing that go out into the universe and bringing into your life others similar to yourself.
Audience: "Is there a tool or method to use to bring good people into your life?"
JJ: You will naturally bring people of a similar vibration into your life, but what you want to avoid is bringing in those who are in a negative state or others who are just not on your wavelength.
The way I do this, which has been pretty successful in my life, is that when I meet someone that I do not want in my life, I just tune him out. It's difficult to explain how to tune someone out, but basically you just avoid letting them into your consciousness and place no attention on them. Don't think about them and do not give them any energy for remember, energy follows thought. If you give them any energy, good or bad, they may come into your life.
So when I meet someone who has a vibration I do not like, I give them no energy and even when I am talking to them I do not think about them but let my mind drift to other things. Something in such people will pick up the signal that they should not be in your life and they will disappear out of your ring-pass-not.
The mistake people make -- and this problem happens to some of the nicest people -- is they want to be nice to everyone. If you meet someone who can be a future problem or their vibratory rate is a lot different than yours the tendency is to be obviously nice to them because you are nice to everyone. So you wind up being nice to the guy and in return he thinks, "Well, this is a really nice person. I'm going to hang out with him." So you wind up bringing this person into your life.
Now I am nice to everyone, but when I meet someone I do not want in my life, and I meet them almost every day, because we have a business and meet a lot of people, but I just do not give them any energy unless I want to befriend them. I am nice to all but I do not go out of my way or give them go-ahead signals.
Okay, it's been a pleasure meeting with you guys we will adjourn till next year.
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